Gift ideas · for a Competitor

Gifts for competitive kids

Competitive kids want a score, a timer or someone to beat, even if it's their own best time. Good gifts give them a fair way to compete and plenty of chances to practice losing.

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Ages 4 to 6

  • 1A quick card game, like Uno or Spot ItShort rounds mean a loss is over fast and there's always another game. Find one
  • 2A stopwatchSuddenly getting dressed is a race. Find one
  • 3A soccer ball and a small pop-up goalWorks in any backyard or park. Find one
  • 4Cones and a sand timerFor obstacle courses they design and time themselves. Find one

Ages 7 to 9

  • 1A chess set, and then teach themIt's the classic for a reason. Winning takes thinking, not luck. Find one
  • 2A door-mounted basketball hoopKeeps score all winter. Find one
  • 3A speed card game, like Blink or Dutch BlitzFast, loud and good for a kid who likes to win. Find one
  • 4A jump rope and a chart for their recordCompeting against yourself is a skill too. Find one

Ages 10 to 12

  • 1A strategy game you'll actually replay, like Ticket to RideLong enough to plan, short enough for a school night. Find one
  • 2A table tennis set that clips to the kitchen tableNo table tennis table needed. Find one
  • 3A simple step counter or kids' fitness watchTheir own numbers to beat every day. Find one
  • 4A tabletop air hockey or foosball gameTwo players, fast rounds and a lot of rematches. Find one

What usually doesn't get used

Games that take two hours. For a competitive kid, one long game with a loss at the end is harder than lots of short ones.

Not sure this is your kid?

This list is for a Competitor: keeps score, even when nobody asked. Most kids are a mix of two Play Types, so the quiz is the quickest way to know which lists to use.

Gift ideas for the other Play Types

Made by a dad of three. Ideas and picks are chosen by hand, and nobody pays to be on this site. Game ratings come from the ESRB and the App Store, so check anything yourself before saying yes.Also from the same dad: Nightlight, tonight's dinner and bedtime in three taps, and Halftime, for when the day gets away from you.