Gift ideas · Birthday parties

Birthday party gifts for a kid you barely know

The invite came home in a backpack and the party is Saturday. You don't know if they like dinosaurs or soccer. These are gifts most kids that age will use, whatever they're into.

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Ages 4 to 6

  • 1Play-Doh and a few toolsEvery kid this age uses it, and it gets used up. Find one
  • 2A big set of sidewalk chalkSomething to do outside the same afternoon. Find one
  • 3A floor puzzleBig pieces, a picture they can finish on their own. Find one
  • 4A giant bubble wand kitLoved at 4, still loved at 6. Find one

Ages 7 to 9

  • 1A quick card game, like Spot ItFast to learn, and they can play it with the whole family. Find one
  • 2A craft kit they can finish in one afternoonA finished thing by dinner beats a big project that stalls. Find one
  • 3A graphic novelEasy to pick for a kid you don't know. Almost every kid this age reads them. Find one
  • 4A small LEGO Creator 3-in-1 setThree builds in one box, so it doesn't end up on a shelf. Find one

Ages 10 to 12

  • 1A party card game, like Exploding KittensSomething to play at their next sleepover. Find one
  • 2A friendship bracelet kitSocial, easy to share and it gets used up. Find one
  • 3A speed cubeKids this age trade tips and times on these. Find one
  • 4A sketchbook and a good set of pencilsGrown-up supplies read as a grown-up gift. Find one

What makes these work

What usually doesn't get used

Anything loud with batteries. The parents will remember who brought it.

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Made by a dad of three. Ideas and picks are chosen by hand, and nobody pays to be on this site. Game ratings come from the ESRB and the App Store, so check anything yourself before saying yes.Also from the same dad: Nightlight, tonight's dinner and bedtime in three taps, and Halftime, for when the day gets away from you.